Three elements are, usually, necessary for transformation and lifestyle changes. They are vision, planning and creativity. People, often, hope that their lives will spontaneously alter by themselves, but this rarely happens, in my experience. They say that the definition of madness is doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result. If you want to achieve something special, want to reach for the stars or for something outside of the ordinary, then, you better start envisioning it. You better make plans and get creative, before the fire goes out inside you. Inspiration, motivation, and discontentment do not hang around forever, you know.
The Biggest Danger is Your Comfort Zone
The biggest danger to transformation and growth is your comfort zone. Here’s hoping that you do not have a size 14 or XXL comfort zone. Staying safely inside the known territory is not conducive to going beyond and discovering your greatest moments. To bravely go where no man or woman has gone before. To reach the outer edges of the known galaxy. To dive deep beneath the surface of things. To face your fears, because what you fear, often, points you in the right direction. Whether it be in love, in work, in sport, in adventure, or some other realm, you must overcome your fears and the comfort of the known universe.
We Experience the Newbie Dilemma
Lifestyle improvements may come via work and career opportunities. Many of us know the initial discomfort and uneasiness one feels when beginning a new vocational pathway. We do not know, immediately, what the right things to do are. We experience the newbie dilemma. Eventually, however, acceptance comes, and we forge a new identity based on our experiences via this pathway. Transforming possibilities are always close at hand, even, if we do not recognise them straight off.
It Takes Courage to Imagine Your New Life
Remember to invoke vision, planning and creativity, as these are your strongest suits when it comes to making real changes within your life. Going along with the crowd and maintaining the status quo will not shift your feet from the same old road. It takes great courage to imagine the life you may desire. It takes even more fortitude to begin planning for that new lifestyle. Finally, it takes some magic to bring forth the necessary creativity to make it happen in this dimension. Do not be dispirited, however, if you encounter resistance and delays on the journey, as they will only make the outcome more worthwhile.
Business ethics, what a can of worms, and only to be opened when well prepared for disappointment. Now, that sounds fairly disheartening and not all days are like this, but creatives do get the short end of the stick at times. Many people do not want to pay for creative work if they can get away with it and stories change in the telling over time. Contracts are the only real way to protect your integrity from unethical business people. As hired guns, creatives are briefed by businesses and their representatives, and if you do not get it in writing, you can be amazed at the lies some people will tell to further their own cause.
Creative Businesses Are Lighting an Ethical Path Forward
Negotiations are grist for our mill in the world of graphic designers, illustrators, photographers and the like. We must come to terms with our paymasters in the commercial sense of that word. We may be working on a cruelty free makeup project or some other ethically driven job, but the challenge can be to get treated ethically well ourselves. Lighting an ethical path forward is a mission for the creative sector, because we have neglected that aspect in our training as designers in the past. Too much emphasis is put on the design work and not enough on the realities of doing business in the real world.
Get Everything in Writing
Only bitter experience has taught many creatives what is required to do business in an, often, dog eat dog world. Contracts and getting everything in writing is a must, if you want to avoid being ripped off regularly. Digital artists and copywriters all need to be prepared to stand their ground when it comes to getting properly paid for their work. Businesses are always on the lookout for short cuts and savings to their bottom line.
Australian made products are popular in some circles right now. Australian designers are at the forefront of ethical practices in many of their young industries. Getting it right at the beginning, can go a long way to creating sustainable practices for the long term. Industry associations are important for the establishment of standards and guidelines, so that individual creatives can adhere to them. The artist is sometimes seen as a solitary creature, but commercial applications call for team work and consensus.
It is a must that you always try something new in sex. This being said, a lot of people are having trouble of thinking of creative ways on how they can reach sexual satisfaction. But byreading the right material, anyone can release their wild side in bed. For instance, try observing the character of escorts. With this, one can find out how they can channel their sexual aura and let it off at the right time. In doing so, you can participate in Sydney tours of brothels. Who knows, you might bring home a lady for an experimental tryst.
The Creative Side of Sex
If you are going to look at it, sex is more than sex. It is a process where two bodies, or in some cases more than two, move in unison to arrive at the point of ecstasy. But it won’t hurt if you spice up your sex life by getting kinky and wild. Here are some ideas on how you can do this:
Wear something kinky.
Go wear something kinky that will totally surprise your partner. It can either be a costume for your role play, or a very sexy lingerie. Be proud of your body, regardless of your shape and size. Know that you are beautiful and remind yourself that your partner appreciates you no matter what you are. Let your outfit works its magic. Be sure to prepare yourself for one kinky sex!
Give a private peep show.
Everyone gets sexually excited from sexy visuals. Tease your partner with a private peep show. Move around your place in your underwear, or better yet wear nothing when doing simple chores. You can also build the sexual tension by doing small, sensual moves.
Try new positions.
You have to regularly change things up to avoid monotonous, dull sex. Try new sexual positions or level up your favorite sex positions. For instance, do some improvisations with the usual doggy style, missionary and reverse cowgirl positions.
Do sex games.
There are literally thousands of sex games that you can do, which are all available on the Internet. For example, do the Blind Man game. In here, lead your partner into the bed with his eyes blindfolded. Ravish him slowly and teasingly while doing the things that arouse him.
Try new places.
Even if having sex in bed is pretty convenient and gives comfort, try doing it outside your bedroom. For instance, make love in your yard or in other rooms and spaces in the house.If you want to take things to a whole different level, you can always do public sex. The thrill of getting caught makes the sex more fulfilling.
Let’s begin by defining ‘enlightened’ within the context of this question regarding business. Enlightened must in this circumstance involve having a wider perspective than what is usually so overwhelmingly important in business, making money and lots of it. The bigger picture must be considered, which can include the basic happiness of all parties involved in the transaction and as many associated parties as well. By this I mean, the people that maybe manufactured the product, transported it, distributed it and everyone else connected to the trade. The earth and the environment needs to be considered, as well, if business is to be adjudged truly enlightened.
Can Business Ever Be Truly Enlightened?
So, as you can see, there are a lot of stake holders involved in every business transaction; and this is only really scratching the surface. A truly holistic understanding traces the chain of production in every direction from beginning to end, including its waste management. There is a small but concerted push amongst some business people to bring this enlightened understanding to business. Businesses like The Body Shop, Planet Ark and to a lesser degree companies like Virgin Airlines, have all attempted to expand the level of holistic responsibility in how they do business around the globe.
There does seem to be a veritable tug of war or elastic band polarity dynamic going back and forth between forces of enlightenment, as embodied by business people like Anita Roddick and Richard Branson and the old school ‘profit before all other things’ type of business people. Global warming has been a recent example of this, with the world jumping up and down to do something about this for a couple of years, before the ‘global financial crisis’ saw the forces of profit first taking over and telling us that we cannot afford to worry about tomorrow.
Is helping people while doing business at the same time a possibility in business or a pipedream? Are those greedy rats in thrall to a pied piper and will we pay the piper when our streets are cleaned of them? Enlightened business is not about ignoring the profit motive, it is really about expanding the whole equation. The cost of production needs to factor in the price of pollution in carbon. It also needs to include the price of the wellbeing of all those involved in producing the product. Cheaper things in the short term often end up costing all of us much more in the long run. They call this new way of counting the costs of doing business, ‘ethical business‘. Business ethics are then priced accordingly to avoid an algorithm which fails our test of enlightenment.
I have just seen some amazing creative wood designed furniture for kids. These pieces are so incredible they are awesome. Whimsical chests of drawers that are split down the middle or have a star burst hole carved through the middle of them. Drawers that are tired of standing up and so are sitting down instead with legs akimbo. Kids can really relate to the expressive shapes and kooky poses that these finely crafted pieces of furniture are embodying. They definitely speak to the soul, as they are anthropomorphising furniture into friends.
Shaker furniture beautifully captured soulful energy in their simple but extremely well crafted designs. Pieces spoke of silence and contemplation in the presence of an almighty. Communal tables communicated their role in carrying the shared meals of believers. Benches and chairs, sewing tables and cupboards, all sang of simplicity and modesty. Clean lines and natural wood grain employed in well made items of utilitarian furniture.
Zen furniture design suggests space and symmetry. Things built low down to the ground and offering clean lines. Natural elements like wood and fabrics employed in simple but exquisitely beautiful pieces of furniture. Uncluttered and present in form and function these are the spiritual qualities of Zen design. Traditional Japanese forms speak of meditation and purity of purpose.
Habitat furniture can define your living space by its aesthetic nature; it can bring out positive qualities from within you. Wooden furniture has a vibrational signature attuned to its source as a previously living tree. Humans and trees have been living together for tens of thousands of years; we are interlinked at a very deep level. Furniture designed in accord with ancient cultural traditions speaks to our soul in ways that mass produced stuff cannot. We are awakened to a peace and tranquillity that is missing from our modern technologically advanced world.
Some furniture stores in Sydney, I noticed during my last visit to that wonderful city, are Meccas of soulful design. When you walk into their showrooms you are transported to another time and place. The tinkling of bells and the sound of a Shakuhachi flute whisper messages of calm to my consciousness. I sink down onto a futon and exhale, feeling my being, my isness in this very moment. Life is a communion with nature and the kind of furniture we fill our homes with affect us on so many different levels.
The ancient Greeks gave us Pegasus, the white winged horse who helped mythic heroes like Bellerophon to defeat the Chimera. The horse is a noble creature beloved of the gods and of humankind. In Norse mythology Odin, the king of the gods, rode Sleipnir an eight legged horse. This powerful beast could ride to Hel and back, carrying the wily Odin on his back. In India Uchchaihshravas is a seven headed horse that carried the Hindu king of the gods Indra.
Islamic mythology gives us Al Burq the Prophet’s horse, which carried Mohammed and the angel Gabriel from Mecca to Jerusalem and then to heaven to have a chat with Allah. Another white horse with wings, but this time with a human face. The Four Horses of the Apocalypse are the Christian harbingers of conquest, war, famine and death; all part of the last judgement in the Book of Revelation. Siddhartha, the original Buddhist, rode Kanthaka, a (you guessed it) white horse of immense stature who was, interestingly, reborn as a scholar who achieved enlightenment; who said horses were dumb animals.
Horses are, generally, depicted as graceful animals who when galloping on top of the ground, almost appear to be flying. Genghis Khan and his Mongol hordes had special relationships with their horses and they employed them skilfully in battle to overcome armies. Some of the American Indian tribes were masters of the plains, who brought down buffaloes on their horses. Human and horse have been bonded for a very long time. Knights jousting atop their mounts and charging into battle. Calvary were the elite soldiers in armies, the officer class who brought their own horses with them. The mighty Cossacks riding their mounts over the steppes of Russia.
Epic nobility: the horse as tender warrior in mythology has a place fixed firmly in the heart of humanity. We do not eat horses in most western cultures, despite the fact that many in the thoroughbred business end up as pet food; this is because we psychologically cannot stomach the idea. Free horse racing bets are as close as most people get to a horse these days. Equus stands proudly in the DNA of our past and we honour him and her for the bravery of their ancestors. We are interlinked with the horse culturally, despite the fact that the motorcar replaced the beast as our main mode of transport nearly a hundred years ago. Riding horses has become the hobby of the wealthy; polo and equestrian competitions.
While the world’s industries spew out ever more toxic garbage, is there hope for humankind and our fragile planet? The only hope is if we can unite within our communities and stay strong in the face of rampant capitalism and consumerism. Corporate America and the rest of the global giants only care about profits for their shareholders and themselves. Governments are in thrall to these powerful economic influences and march to their beat, rather than listening to the silent majority. And that may just be the problem; we do not make enough noise.
Can social media formats like Facebook and Twitter become forces for positive social change? Instead of merely being more tools in the corporate arsenal for marketing stuff that we do not really need. Packaging is the single biggest problem in waste management in the twenty first century. Everything we buy comes wrapped up in toxic plastics and waste paper. Christmas time will be screaming with gifts covered in layers of packaging and this will go out into landfill, clogging up the veins of our cities with rubbish and pollution.
Eco-Dreaming: Will the tribes unite to save us with recycling? Ask yourself who is in your tribe? Is it the people in your street or the Eastern Suburbs cleaners in your neighbourhood? Can you gather together with these fellow human beings and do the right thing and recycle? You could start a Facebook Recycling in Your Suburb or District page. Put up a few posters in public places to let your community know. Connect with the local waste management and recycling companies in your area to consult about best practices. Make enquiries toward government agencies in this field and post this information up on the page. Organise a public meeting to create some momentum.
We are all people living on this planet together and when the shit hits the fan we will all go down together. How about doing something right now to avoid that fate? It will empower you and all those who join you in this quest for survival. Recycling is the single biggest environmental solution we have at our disposal. We can all do more to recycle more, educate others and make it easier for them to recycle too. Make a noise; do not go quietly into that gentle night. Fight back and make the earth a better place for our children and their children. Recycling can ease the burden on mother earth.
Morally speaking, I would answer in the affirmative; yes they should still be able to claim compensation from the exploitative colonial powers of their recent past. Legally, probably not, as independence is what it sounds like; going it alone as an independent national entity means being entirely responsible for past, present and future realities. Countries like Australia, which perpetuated colonial activity in New Guinea, tend to maintain high levels of international aid toward their former colonial territories; and this can be viewed as some sort of continuing reparation.
Imposing western values on indigenous communities out of a sense of racial and cultural superiority is now seen to be morally wrong. The fact that these actions were also only masking the real activities, like mining or agricultural exploitation for profit, is doubly reprehensible. Colonial activities by European powers through Africa and Asia, in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries in particular, were accompanied by military force to enforce the property rights of the colonial interests over the indigenous peoples. Almost, slave labour conditions often disenfranchised these local people from a share in the wealth being generated in their country using their natural resources. These people deserve compensation but it is highly unlikely they ever will receive it from the companies and families who exploited them.
Colonial western powers brought diseases and degenerative behaviours to many previously idyllic natural environments, which were populated by indigenous peoples. The progress of these super powers changed the world for these denizens of natural paradises. Their lives were now seen as lesser than those of the economically dominant white skinned people; they were savages, little more than animals. Christianity played its part in this cultural besmirching of ‘so called’ native peoples by informing them of their damned and godless state. Missionaries self righteously contributed to the eradication of indigenous religious beliefs and cultures; ignorantly casting many of these people into a ‘no man’s land’ between western and indigenous worlds.
The writings of Joseph Conrad began an anti-colonial awareness in literature, which became a flood of post-colonial writers from all over the globe. Writers such as VS Naipaul, Salman Rushdie, Edward Said, Leopold Senghor, Chinua Achebe, Leon Damas, Bharati Mukherjee; to name just a few, have all contributed greatly to a post-colonial awareness of the injustices committed upon the indigenous peoples of so many countries by colonial bully boys. Generations of injustice are not wiped out easily and independence is, unfortunately, a two edged sword. Colonialism, also, has not completely disappeared as seen by the behaviour of China in Africa recently.
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